How does his parents oppose breaking couples? Case description

2022-07-27 02:54:11

Even if two people feel good, if they can't get the consent of their parents, they will eventually come together. Let's share a case for your parents who have retrieved the couple who oppose breakup, and use the case to give you a statement, I hope to be inspired by you.

First, what should I do if my parents oppose breaking?

Case: Boys 26 years old, and girlfriend love for two years, always hit parents "underground feelings", until March this year, the two parties ended in the internship period. The male parents agree, and the female parents decided to take a look at the city to work, and make a decision.

Women's bank staff, work stable, monthly salary 5k, boys in a small entrepreneurial company, monthly salary 8K, is still unstable. The two are now living in Shenyang. There is no house in the name, and the man has a second-hand tornado.

However, during the examination of the female parents, I asked the boys asked the "future planning, salary, parental work" and other issues, and boys did not prepare in advance, and the answer was not satisfactory. At the same time, the boys also reveal that they still have a brother, the parents are the fact that the female parents are embarrassed, but they don't have a face on the spot.

During eating, the boys did not care in advance, found a good taste, but the environmental noisy restaurant, the female father said dissatisfied, and secretly hit the boys. After the parents returned to their hometown, they immediately said "Let the girls and boys break up as soon as possible, lift the same relationship, and arrange the girls to give the girl after a month, do not intend to interact with boys."

The girl was strongly opposed, and the female mother said that if she didn't divide her, I ran to Shenyang and rent a house and girls living, restrictions and boys. The two collapsed: the love of the parents is so opposed, is there really no fruit?

Second, how do parents oppose?

In response to this situation, we need to do it is to let the girls first stabilize their parents' attitude, express enough sincerity and understanding, let parents first put down the hostility to boys. In appropriate, he put a feeling of emotional cards, eased the sentiment of the woman's parents, do not use a confrontational attitude to completely block the two people.

The key to the recovery is that the woman's parents will come out again, let the second elders re-examine the attitude of boys and development, and re-trust the boys, and willing to continue to investigate the man's appreciation space. Here, you need to make your less than ten questions in advance, this is the probability that the parents are mentioned again:

1. Can you buy a house in your job in the next 5 to 10 years? Do you have a fundamental expectation for future salary?

2, what is the future plan? Is it a small employee who plans to do a lifetime, or has the intention of the transfer or its own business?

3. What is the real income of the male parents? Is there a minimum medical insurance and pension insurance?

4, the men's brother need not to provide the minimum economic assistance in the future? If there is, pay for a few years?

5, how many colorful gifts are going to prepare? Does the wedding room have a certain fall?

6. If you reject your marriage, what will I do in the future?

7. I have been in two years with my own daughter.她在哪？

8. What is the planning of your future life? Is there any other urban development?

9. What is the promotion space in the future? What is the potential of the company's development?

10. What is the planning of future child education? Is there a clear idea and planning?

The above ten questions, although her parents will not ask for straightforward, but will also turn around, and the answer to these issues is also the best opportunity for two people against the wind. If you still ask three times, I don't know, f或者未来，没有最低规划，以及对女孩的态度，那么两个人彼此相爱，彼此没有匹配。

毕竟，每个人都是成年人。这不是一个小家庭的小孩，以及一个“我爱你”可以支持整个感受。因此，两个人必须了解他们的父母反对，他们需要两个人面对一起，而不是让女孩们在父母身上。

如果男孩接受了女性父母的脸，那么两人提前就把这八个问题提出了这一点，最好是随机压力，面对女性父母的殉难，可以回答答案。

如果你看到脸，女性父母的态度仍然犹豫不决。它并不焦虑。只要父母仍然在一起挣扎，那么过去转过过去的机会已经掌握了两个人。

摘要：父母的爱不是不可能的，大多数问题的起点，所有的物质状况都不能满足父母的期望，我们必须做的，一个是拿出真诚的态度，第二个是要拿行动。让对方的父母安心，愿意给两个人提供两个机会，慢慢地软化对方的态度，问题，当时，它自然会。